Am I honestly a tramp?

No, of you are clearly not a tramp. I honestly applaud the level of maturity you've somehow managed to grasp at only 14. But yea, 1st base after 3 years? That's like the opposite of a tramp, but whatever, it's your life, set your own pace. As for that chick, 1) She's just plain crazy...... 2) Yes, violence is bad, I agree. However, I'm gonna say she sort of had that coming...... But again, she's clearly insane.